Ok OP, I think I understand what you are thinking here.....your right & are on the right track. 3.73 or 4.10 gears will help since you've switched to a lighter weight flywheel. Is your installed flywheel a lightened CM steel flywheel or is it an aluminum flywheel? If it is aluminum then you really need to swap to 4.10 gears but if it is a lightened CM steel flywheel then 3.73 or 4.10 gears will work. Most lightweight CM steel flywheels are around 15-16 lbs (aluminum is around 10-12 lbs) vs the OEM nodular iron flywheel at 22 lbs (actual weight as I've weighed mine myself & verified this) so you're giving up some "torque" from loss of spinning flywheel mass inertia to move car off in 1st gear without using throttle input & without having to apply some extra clutch pedal feathering at the car's current curb weight (verts are heavier than coupes) which does negatively affect low speed stop-go drivability, the lighter the flywheel is, the more torque from spinning flywheel mass inertia loss you will lose so to make up for this w\ a manual trans, you either have to resize the trans gearing ratios OR resize the rear end final gearing to gain more wheel torque (leverage) OR up the engine's actual low speed torque output (either thru retuning or just raising the engine's idle speed) to compensate IF you're looking to regain the lost idle "torque" from the reduction of spinning flywheel mass inertia due to the lighter weighted flywheel you've installed to move the same curb weighted chassis w\ the same engine output.
The 2 places where this is the most cost effective to change\adjust w\o changing the engine's low speed TQ output is either the flywheel's weight itself or the rear end final gearing ratio.
The best overall choice will indeed be the 4.10 gears as others have already stated....unless fuel mileage has a higher priority in your mind than the majority of us in here then the 3.73's will work out better than the OEM 3.55's if you're using a lightened CM steel flywheel since the amount of lost torque from spinning flywheel mass inertia reduction is less vs an all aluminum flywheel.
This is my 2 cents to add here. Hope this helps.