I've ran a 9.4:1 motor with 17psi from a Whipple. I've also run a 10.76:1 motor with 19psi from a Procharger. Never had a problem and I've never had to have heads resurfaced. A friend of mine has run 23psi with tty and not had an issue. I've gone on about this before and I'm about to again, lol.
First off, Ford uses quality parts. This isn't directed at you, it's just a general statement. Just because a GM motor lifts heads with stock hardware doesn't mean that Ford is using the same hardware and that the same result will happen. If anything the success of the GT500 and Terminator motors handling high boost and power with tty was encouragement enough for me to use them. I also benefit from working with a number of stress engineers. From time to time I'll bounce ideas off of them.
What tty bolts do is yield at an engineered level. This means that the torque will always be correct because the bolt enters a plastic state and is designed to stay in it without breaking. Having the same torque on each fastener means that the clamping force is equal and the head isn't going to warp. This not only protects the head but it helps with sealing. IMO if enough boost is being used that head bolts are required then you might as well o ring the block too.
Ford engineered the block with long head bolts in order to help with bore deflection. Something else that I've never done is torque plate hone. I would if I was using studs based on one very meticulous members measurements of bore distortion when a torque plate was installed with studs.
With all of that said I realize that I'm just a guy who likes to assemble motors in the garage. I don't claim to be anything more than a hobbiest.
FYI for anyone who is wondering the frpp 3v head changing kit comes with gaskets and bolts. It costs $58. That's why I made the joke to Paul because even if you don't use the bolts you still end up buying the whole kit just for the good price on the gaskets.
How often do you change head gaskets? I'm still on my first set with 2 years F.I. on this block and plenty of 1/4 mile runs. I think once you get into the 20 psi range it would be a needed. This would be a good question? how many people are running more than 15# of boost with stock Head Bolts?