Ok--here are my thoughts:
Since its a weekend car, and probably not driven much, get the 10psi kit. If something were to happen, its not your only transportation and you could still get to work/school/home, whatever.
But, being an auto with a stock bottom end, be cautious. Even though you are not going to race it, you could still be an aggressive driver on the street. With the auto, the weakest link is the stock torque converter. Some are lucky and after a few thousand miles the stock torque converter is fine at 10psi. Some are not, and the stock torque converter quickly goes south, where it locks/unlocks under load. Since your getting it dyno tuned, they will be able to tell you whether the stock converter is staying locked or not.
Second thing is with the stock bottom end, engine failure is possible if you want your tuner to get every last bit of rwhp out of it. If you go with a conservative tune, however, you'll be fine---especially since you won't be racing it.
Third--the tensioner. At 10 psi with an auto, I don't think I recall anyone having a problem. I think it was only the manual cars---and at that it was rare being 10psi--so for you I don't think you need to worry about that.
So go with the 10 psi kit, conservative tune, and watch the stock torque converter.