1. Ok I posted some information in our vendor section about the plug number recommended for the 5.0 Coyote motor. The link is below.
Coyote Nitrous Plugs
2. Limit to what is safe can be a hard question to answer. What I would recommend is a dyno pull to see where the intake stops making power. Then pull with the nitrous to see where the power falls off on the top end. If the car is not making power past 7000 then there is no reason to pull past that. If its making power with a safe A/F past 7000 then by all means go for it. You would want to watch a/f and know the limit of the bottom end on a Coyote. Catch my idea I am getting at???
Always a good tune is something you want to do. Nitrous is a power adder and should be treated accordingly. The more you put at the motor the more need of an actual dyno tune you are going to need. Another good thing you can do with a dyno tune is have a great N/A tune with a awesome nitrous tune.
Another thing i would recommend is that you set your window switch a couple of hundred of rpm off from your red line/fuel cut. if its 7000 rpm set your window switch at 6700 deactivation. This is a safety recommendation that we have for our customers.