TGR96
el blanco nino
I disagree completely with your assessment of the brakes. If they were completely inadequate for all cases then everyone who even thought about touching their brake pedal would be clamoring to get Brembos and the simple fact of the matter is that you do not need them. In your case it sounds like paying better attention to the road ahead of you will save you money on brakes as well as learning to not "park" your car with the brakes on if they are hot. In stop and go traffic with hot brakes you need to learn to keep creeping forward every few minutes and not use your brakes when you can as having the pads constantly against the rotors is exactly what is causing the warped brakes.
I've done nearly 3 complete years of autocrossing and 40k street miles on my stock 09 GT calipers, pads, lines, fluids, rotors and aside from a longer pedal travel due to wear and tear I have no desire to change anything out because they lack performance. I also think your brake weight estimates are a bit off. The OEM blanks on the GT500 and Brembo cars are not two piece rotors and weigh a decent bit more than the 12.4" rotors and the 13.2" rotors found in the 05-10 GT's and the new base GT's. I also have not warped my rotors despite abusing them in ways I'm sure your stop and go traffic couldn't hope to abuse them. I've never experienced fade and probably never will. They didn't get hot enough to fade when hot lapping my car for 6 runs straight on a 60 second course on a day that was 95º and 80% humidity. That is far more than adequate for a DD car.
I DO agree with your comment on pads and rotors and would add lines and fluid to that mix as well to really get the most out of the stock system but some common sense driving while in stop and go traffic will also do wonders to keeping your rotors from warping and your pads from hating you.
Sentence in bold it quite true. I didn't have a scale handy, so I wasn't able to weigh them for comparison, but the GT500 rotors are noticeably heavier than the stockers. Even the larger ones that came on my '13 GT.
That being said, after driving around on the GT500 brake set up for a few weeks now, and doing an autocross, I can say that the extra weight is not noticeable from my butt dyno. Car seems just as responsive and handles just as well as it did with the smaller stock set up. I am pleased with the upgrade, and I'm glad I did it.