I called Patrick at Watson Racing and he gave me the scoop on the Howe Industry ball joints. Like you guys have mentioned, they're threaded ball joints that come in 3 pieces: collar, threaded ball joint, and a dust boot. They're planning on getting it up on their website soon, but in case you're like me and already have wiggling ball joints that need replacement, Patrick can sell you a set over the phone.
They're pricey though. Way pricier than the proforged ball joints that BMR will sell.
$252 shipped for the pair. I've chosen to be the guinea pig. I'll let you know how it goes.
Yes positive toe will make the car twitchy and unstable. The handling characteristics of positive toe can actually be quite dangerous at high speeds as the car WANTS TO TURN. It will also cause excessive wear on your tires.
Got the BMR tall joints. Compared them to the Steedas- the diameter for control arm and knuckle are the same for both. The BMR's are longer, but I don't think enough to get near the bottom of the strut. One concern I have is that there isn't a shoulder to locate the control arm. Is this feature necessary? Seems like you're relying solely on the clamping force from the control arm. If not, do I just set the height to match the Steeda?