I get the look. I've seen cars like that, much more exagerated but flush is flush. If my door is supposed to close flush, and the builder had it sticking out a half inch, and tried to call that flush, I'd be pissed. Flush is level and straight. Stretched is not.
To each his own, and I don't think it looks bad. I think it would look nicer with flush/proper fitting wheels, but that is my preference. Call it flush if you like, but it isn't. I think it looks nice, but I call it what it is, stretched.
I don't like my women wearing proper fitting clothes. I like then wearing tight shirts that amplify boobies. That's also my preference.