Ditto. Pretty much replaced everything not suspension related with ARP bolts. More expensive (especially if you go stainless) but they torque better and don't get fowled up, and in some cases are stronger.
Essentially there's two kinds of fasteners: those that simply screw together, and those that stretch. That's not a precise technical but is good enough for our purposes.
Torque To Yield (TTY) bolts are basically bolts that stretch as you torque them in place. You can kind of think about it like tightening a rope; there's the point at which the line is attached, then you cinch things down till the line is really taught. It's a bit the same. You're using that mechanical deformation of the bolt to lock things together.
The important thing about TTY bolts is that they are designed to stretch when properly torqued, and that means when you take the bolt out, it's not going to tighten correctly with the same torque again. It's already been stretched out. This is why they're often recommended to be replaced (some say immediately, others say you can torque them a couple times before replacing).
So where does that get you? Well, if you try to re-torque a used TTY bolt, the original tightening spec won't be sufficient. So you end up tightening it more, but you don't know if it's good or not because you're basically in the realm of slop at that point.
There's a lot of argument about this because people will just monkey TTY bolts down tighter and tighter each time and claim it's fine because it holds. While that's more or less true, it doesn't resolve the issue that you're basically over-tightening a stretched bolt to some unknown spec and literally hoping it holds. Do people do it? Sure, all the time. Doesn't mean it's right.
Can you get away with it once or twice? Usually. Personally I think Ford/GM are a little overzealous about their bolts on suspension bits. The difference for me when I do it is that I know I'll very likely be re-checking the hardware regularly, so the chances of something working free between checks is lower (note I said lower, not non-existent). These days, I don't have a lot of stock bolts left in my suspension, but for those I do, I have a handful of new spares, and I put in a new one (more or less) each time I muck about.
Another factor to remember is that a harder bolt is not necessarily always better. For example, bolts that are really hard can break under conditions where a softer bolt would have survived. This is one reason why some suspension components use 8.8 bolts instead of 10.9. It helps to have a good relationship with your suspension provider, as they should be able to recommend options if you want to upgrade hardware. So in short the answer is not always to run to the hardest thing you can find.
Also remember that for most cases, a factory bolt is going to be just fine. If you want to spend the money on nicer ARP bolts (guilty I am) fine, but you don't have to. It'll be fine with what the factory spec'd.