Agreed. I currently have an american thunder axleback on and when I went to take the stocker off, the previous owner had it tacked to the midpipe so I took it down to the muffler shop. I drove home without a muffler and it sounded great. The only thing that surprised me was how quiet it was when idling. The american thunder is alright IMO but it makes the car backfire for about 5 or 6 shifts when you first start driving the car cold. It's almost embarrassing leaving the neighborhood.
So what it sounds like I should do is a catback system. I have been told by others to do an X and not an H pipe followed by the dual system. A buddy of mine told me to use GT mufflers because they give a great sound to the V6 with dual exhaust. I may try that and go from there.
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