So it wobbles under back torque but not under drive torque…? If everything was mounted correctly, one would assume there is some massive cock-up with squat angles, causing ”brake hop” rather than ”wheel hop”.
But then again, is everything mounted correctly…? Going through everything sounds inevitable. Check every possible length of the aftermarket parts and compare to the standard parts. Check that everything is straight. Even the rear axle and the front LCA mounts. Check that all of the bushings are in good condition. Re-assemble in the correct order with the correct torque and torque procedure.