Practice your clutch release with the car off. Let the clutch out to the point were you feel it go overcenter. Fully engaged but dont take your foot off. Get a feel for this point. Move the pedal down a little from fully engaged. Memorize this position. The point where it's just prior to fully engaged. Now push the clutch down and hold it just off the floor. Bring it up slowly till you get to that just prior fully engaged point. Push it back down to just off the floor. Now practice releasing the cluthc quickly to that just prior point. Do this till you automatically stop just prior.
Now when you stage, after lighting the second light bring your rpm up to about 5000. Don't worry about reaction times yet. Bring the clutch pedal just off the floor and hold it after lighting the second light. At the third light quickly, like you practiced, release the clutch to just prior to fully engaged. The car will lauch, hold that clutch position til you feel like the tires are biting, stomp the gas and let the clutch out the rest of the way at the same time. When you hit 6200 rpm, while holding the gas to the floor, punch the clutch pedal and at the same time pull it in to second at the same exact time, same with third. You will most likely not need fourth with your gears. Most tunes rev limit is set at 6800 so you should be good shifting at 6200.
Start your pressures at 28 psi. With stock suspension I expect you will have a wheel hop problem. See how that goes. LCA's and UCA should be your next purchase.