I went with the mod-list seen in my sig below and that came to about $2200 which may seem a lot but was considerably less than I expected...It can be done cheaper - the Koni 'yellows' were the biggest single purchase, but after talking with someone who Auto-X's a lot, the dampers would appear to make the biggest single improvement when it comes to suspension upgrades.
I went for the Eibach springs simply for the amount of drop they give - there are 'better' performing springs, but that depends on what use you put the car to... mine may feel too hard for a DD, but I don't use it as such...again, the dampers will affect the 'feel' more than the springs, so select the ones you like the look of and get the best shocks you can afford - or go with coil-overs: the adjustability of which is a must for serious racing, but less of an issue for me as I just hammer it around the back-roads with the occasional track outing.
I found with other cars I've owned that once you find a setting you like, you tend to leave it there unless you are
very serious about your race-days...
The Hotchkis sway bars and UMI PHB offer lots of adjustment which was my primary reason - the fact that they're superbly engineered doesn't hurt...
Finally, give Sam Strano a call:
http://www.stranoparts.com/
He hooked me up with my set-up and he won't sell you stuff until he's spoken to you to decide what it is you
need for the kind of driving you do: unlike other vendors who will sell you anything you ask for regardless of your needing it or not...