Man that's gonna be tough making it less googly-eyed. The projector housings are causing that. Having the fogs right next to them for comparison isn't helping though. Maybe look into a center-fog grille from Street Scene or a Bullitt type grille with the fog delete. That should help a bit. Don't take the lip off though as it actually helps draw focus from the 1000 yard stare that the car has right now.
paint the chrome housing black white shroud on your projector and a halo all the way around the "chrome" reflector part... Who did the retrofit? got any pics of the process or the back side haha