I went with the 2.97 and 4.10s. Keep in mind, this is a street car.
But, I did lots of research before coming to a decision. On the street, goosing the car at about 2000 RPMs is common for me, so I used that as a starting point to decide. I then prepared an Excel spreadsheet showing the cars speed in each gear at 2000 RPM using my (then) stock 3650 and 3.55s.
I then did the same with about every rear end gear combination and both T-56 combos (2.66 and 2.97).
I knew I liked the feel of 1st with the 3650 and 3.55s, but I wanted shorter 2nd and 3rd -- while keeping the final drive gear of the new trans (6th) similar to the current final drive gear of the 3650 (5th).
That's how I ended up with 2.97 and 4.10s. 1st is nearly identical to what I had and 6th is very close to the old 5th. But, 2nd and 3rd are wonderfully better