When I was your age I drove a 69 Beatle. After getting out of the Air Force in 1988 I had enough to buy a 65 Cadillac for $200, lol. I didn't have the cash for a nice car until I was 27, bought a brand new 1993 Thunderbird. Wasn't able to get into a house until I was 28 and used my veterans benefits to afford it with a VA loan. Couldn't afford the Mustang until I was 42.
I'll take some of my hate back then. We all have our ideas of what is ok and what isn't and that was the point I was making. Unfortunately I did it at the expense of the OP and I'm sorry for that.
Bruce is right, we all have our stories.
Here is mine,
In 1981, while my parents were at work, I moved out when I was 17 years old. I had $300.00 to my name, lived in my 66 Ford truck, and didn't have a plan. At that time, I worked for free for a guy that match raced a top fuel funny car. He also owned a machine shop that did Boeing aerospace work. He told me as long as I finished school, he would pay me to work in his machine shop after school building billet propellers for unlimited hydroplanes. He also introduced me to a friend of his that was a Super Stock racer and was the general manager of the local Chrysler/Plymouth dealership. He gave me a night job cleaning the service department and re-stocking the parts shelves. Both of these jobs allowed me to finish school and make enough money to rent a condo. I was dead broke, lived on Top Roman, and drove a yellow 71 automatic Pinto. After I graduated, I kept those two jobs and applied for a government loan to go to welding school. I finished welding school and got a 3rd job building Funny Car chassis.
For years, I put hard work and education before all else. I had race cars but if I couldn't afford to build, repair, or race them, they sat parked.
In 1985, I bought a 1 year old house when I was 21 years old and paid 50% down for a new Ford 4x4 in 1986.
It took 15 years, but I worked my way up to executive VP of Caterpillar and played in the stock market too. I use credit cards to order parts and pay them off every month. My wife and I are in a good place but we got here ourselves through hard work, priorities, and not trying to keep up with the Jones.