That still doesn't mean you can't get your headlights aimed properly. Unless your lights have poor beam control or a bad pattern, that's enough to solve the majority of these situations.
If you lower the rear of your car more than the front (to "level it out"), do you realize that you would then need to re-aim your headlights down? Tail down more = headlight pattern moves up.
Same deal it you're carrying a heavy trunk load (such as heavy sound equipment) and/or back seat passengers. If any of those situations are present, don't blame oncoming traffic for what's really an issue with your car.
I have HIDs and frequently run the foglights as well, and I've hardly ever been flashed in the 6 years I've owned the car except for the time I was tweaking the headlight aim. Rarely in the 50 years I've been driving, and I was running halogens for many years before separate bulb headlights were technically legal with bulbs that still aren't.
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